Many of us have heard some exciting or interesting family stories. You may have a family story that you have a Mayflower ancestor, or that you had ancestors that fought in the Revolutionary War or the Civil War.
Record the stories, but take them with a grain of salt. They may not be entirely true! Sometimes mistakes were made, sometimes the
story changed as it was passed from person to person, and sometimes
misinformation was deliberately passed on to family members. Look for documentation to confirm or disprove
the stories.
Let me give you an example.
When I started researching one of my father’s lines, my grandfather
could not tell me the name of his great grandmother and didn’t remember ever
meeting her. The story was that she abandoned
her husband and three small children to run off with another man, so no one
ever talked about her.
As I researched, I found that only a small part of the story
was true! I found her marriage record
which gave her name as Virginia Burgoyne. In 1900, Virginia was still listed with her
husband Samuel Reese, living in Jefferson County, Ohio. Their two youngest sons also lived in the
household.
Then, I found that my parents had a photograph of the family
in about 1901. It shows my great, great
grandfather Samuel Reese, his wife, Virginia Burgoyne and three children….but
the oldest son (Harry) was 23, the middle son (Joshua) was 16 and the youngest
son (Frank) was 5, so I knew she was still living with the family at that time.
After the 1900 census, she disappeared from the records in Ohio, but so did the
two youngest sons!
After extensive research I found her again in 1904 using the
name Virginia Roberts, listed as the widow of Samuel Roberts and living in
Wheeling, WV. I have found no record of
another marriage for Virginia. She may have simply presented herself as a widow
in order to avoid scandal. Her two
youngest sons, Joshua and Frank, were living with her in Wheeling, West
Virginia at the time.
She evidently did leave her husband, but she took the two
younger boys with her. They both lived
with her until she died in 1915. After
her death, Joshua was committed to the Huntingdon State Hospital where he
remained for the rest of his life. He
was mentally ill, and his death certificate lists “Mental deficiency Imbecile
with psychosis” as a significant condition. My theory is that Virginia’s
husband wanted to commit Joshua to an institution, so Virginia took the boys
and left. The only part of the original
story that was true was that she left her husband!
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